“What’s the worst that could happen?”
Sometimes we ask folks this in an attempt to help them see that some situation won’t be that bad. What’s the worst that could happen? You’re not going to die.
The problem with this question, is that we start thinking about the worst that could happen. All our mental energy goes to creating a list (no matter how outrageous) of terrifying possibilities. And we make it easy for ourselves to get stuck right here.
I could die. I probably won’t but I could. Or I might embarrass myself and just want to die. I could lose my job, not be able to provide for my family and…yada yada yada.
I’ve gotta give it to us, we are skilled in the art of possibility creation.
Some folks call this imagination. It’s one of our super-hero mind powers.
And taking a cue from all the good super heroes, we ought to use it for good, not evil.
Use your super-hero mind power to fight the crime in your mind.
Ok, so it’s not a crime to think up terrifying possibilities, but it is a darn shame given that we can use the same incredible power to think up exciting, motivating, and inspiring possibilities.
Instead ask, “What’s the best that could happen?”
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